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Sunday, July 26, 2015

WANNA ASK OR SAY SOMETHING?

Assalamualaikum warahmatullahi wabarakatuh. 

Here's a quick update. If any of you wanna ask or say something, you can easily send it to my ask.fm account; ask.fm/dyllarezan.

I also had put it in the sidebar column as you can see on the right side of this blog. So feel free to click it if you have anything in your mind. 



P/s: I wanna apologise if I've done any wrongdoings to anyone out there. Please pray for me as I'm going to sit for my exam tomorrow. Thank you :)

Assalamualaikum.


Friday, July 24, 2015

PECUTAN AKHIR

Assalamualaikum warahmatullahi wabarakatuh. 

Pecutan akhir final exam vroom! Tick tock tick tock. Laju pula masa ni berlalu, tak sempat habis 1 lecture note tengok tengok sejam dah berlalu hmm. Tetiba teringat cerita Doraemon masa kekecik dulu. Ada one part ni pasal ‘Roti Ingatan’ ke apa entah tajuk dia. Nobita ni kan jenis pemalas and bila exam je selalu dapat 0 so ada one day ni Doraemon kasi this kind of roti to him. Cara nak guna roti ni senang je— tekap kat buku nota and makan haa lepas tu tanya jelah apa apa from those notes confirm boleh jawab. Seronok juga kalau ada roti macam tu tak payah study tergolek golek, makan je roti haha! Dream on Dylla -.-

My batch mates semua memang struggle habis-habisan, in a more simple word to describe— kiasu. Dylla pun try juga nak kiasu macam zaman high school dulu tapi don’t know why nowadays Dylla selalu rasa ‘Takpe, life bukannya study semata-mata sampai tak boleh buat benda lain’. Not sure whether it's right or wrong to think that way. Tadi penat study Dylla pergi duk melayan Luqman tengok cerita Upin Ipin jap haha but after tu sambung lah study balik hehe. 

Insecure lah juga tengok semua orang pergi IMU study dalam library while me.. study dengan relax sambil terbaring depan laptop. Seronok study kat rumah sambil baring ni tapi satu je benda tak seronok hmm bila mengatuk tak sedar bila tertidur haha. Dylla plan konon nak balik Selasa haritu tapi memikirkan takde orang lain kat rumah Vista plus susah nak cari makanan apa semua so plan tergendala lah sampai harini. Esok baru Dylla balik KL. Somehow Dylla bersyukur sangat ada orang sekeliling yang really supportive. Ada tu memang siap kasi semangat untuk Dylla study kat rumah :p Yelah tak semestinya study kat rumah tak boleh study kan, depends on orang *sedapkan hati*. 

“Nanti kalau awak duduk vista sengsorang lagi susah, ibu susah hati. Duduk rumah kan bagus, ada makanan semua.” -Ibu

“Ala balik esok jelah. Duduk rumah lagi sehari.” -Ayah

“Alaaa you dah banyak study dah. InshaaAllah sekarang ni tinggal nak refresh je. Nanti time exam keluarlah semua.” 

“It’s okay. Follow your own pace. You’ll pull through I know. Takyah ikut sangat diorang.” 

“Kalau saya, saya buat benda yang bahagiakan saya. Saya rasa duduk study kat rumah lagi bahagia, tu pasal saya balik.”

As a conclusion, bab bab study ni— one person is not the same as another person. Ada orang study dengar lagu, ada orang study tempat sunyi. Ada orang kena study sorang sorang, ada orang kena study berkumpulan. Ada orang baca laju dah ingat, ada orang kena baca 3-4 kali baru ingat. 

Masing-masing ada cara tersendiri. So tak payah nak rasa insecure ke apa if kita tak study macam orang lain. Yang penting, kita pun usaha sama macam orang lain. Apa pun result yang kita dapat, kita terima, InshaaAllah tu yang terbaik untuk kita. 

Doakan Dylla nak exam Isnin Selasa ni! Hehe. Assalamualaikum! :D 


Wednesday, July 22, 2015

RELATIONSHIP GOALS

Assalamualaikum warahmatullahi wabarakatuh.

Define goal.

goal
/ɡōl/
2. the object of a person's ambition or effort; an aim or desired result.

A few photos of a guy bought a lot of pretty-and-expensive stuffs for his girlfriend become a viral and teenagers, especially girls start to consider meeting that kind of guy as a relationship goal. As in the definition above, yes a goal is an aim. But how can you make your desire to have a boyfriend like that as a 'relationship' goal, hm well it sounds more like an individual goal to me. 

I'm not going to comment anything about the couple. I just wanna express my feelings and toss my opinions about those girls who seem to have a never-ending list of relationship goals. I don't really have the privilege to talk bout this as I'm still not married and usually people use this 'relationship goals' term for couples who have officially become husband and wife, but still, an opinion won't cause any harm, would it? It's okay to speak your mind, as long as you hurt no one.

This world is neither a dream, nor a fantasy, where a perfectly perfect prince is gonna come here someday and give whatever we want.

Girls, stop dreaming about a guy who will give every single thing your heart wishes for and listing nonsense relationship goals. No one is perfectly perfect and to put a certain standard on others is unfair. One person is not the same as another person.

Social media networks are a place where people tend to expose the good part of their lives, and hide the bad ones. Don't be easily fooled by the happiness we see outside and when we start to compare with our own lives.. that's how the negative thoughts start to conquer our minds.

As I already mentioned, relationship goals are agreed by two people, instead of only one who writes down every single thing that s/he wants to achieve in a relationship. If only one sided, then it's a demand. Let's cut this out and straight to the point.

Life goals before relationship goals.

Set your priorities. Instead of focusing to have a perfect guy with big biceps and prominent veins who can give whatever you want, focus on your life first. Do not ever think of having a rich husband so that you don't have to work blabla. No, that's not how life works. To all girls out there, stop dreaming 24/7, start studying/working hard and be independent. The future is unpredictable, so always prepare for the worst.

Again, priorities first.


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